and now there are 3

Z moved in. He does not have much and he looked lost as he wondered around our house... he has not lived here for nearly eight years . He now gets to experience being the only child--which I felt good about. I always felt that as soon as I brought #3 into the house, he was the middle child--with all that goes with it!! Now, I know it sounds silly, but in a way it makes me feel better that he can get the benefits of being the only child (*even if he is 25). Extra spoiling never hurt anyone! even if it is for 2 days a week and an occasional weekend. Yes, we did make a schedule.